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T O P I C R E V I E WLuLuCan someone take a look at my chart please and tell me what you see? I'm having no luck with guys at all and it's getting a little frustrating. They are either too young and immature, my age and not truthful, or just completely wrong for me in general. I'm wondering if it's just aspects in my chart or if some of the transits are wrecking havoc on me at the moment. April 26th, 1978Louisville, Kentucky1:43am ESTSun - Taurus 5 degrees 3rd houseMoon - Sagittarius 17 degrees 11th houseMercury - Aries 14 degrees 2nd houseVenus - Taurus 28 degrees 4th houseMars - Leo 5 degrees 7th houseJupiter - Cancer 2 degrees 5th houseSaturn - Leo 23 degrees 7th houseUranus - Scorpio 14 degrees 9th houseNeptune- Sagittarius 17 degrees 11th housePluto - Libra 14 degrees 8th houseTrue Node - Libra 5 degrees 8th houseChiron - Taurus 5 degrees 4th houseAsc - Capricorn 29 degreessunshine9Lulu,One possibility is that it's due to your Saturn Return; I'm close to your age (I live in KY too!), and am going thru the same thing. Saturn's now at 12 degrees in Leo, and approaching your natal Saturn position; this transit is life-changing, and you inevitably end up making big changes in your life & attitude towards life. You can read more about it here: http://www.newage-directory.com/saturn.html Hope things get better for you; hang in there! Sunshinesunshine9I just noticed that you have Mars at 5' Leo also - Saturn's been conjuncting your natal Mars as well. The good news with this one is that it helps you have greater focus & self-discipline. I'm sure it will help you to get through this, Lulu!! If you're still having a rough time, we could always start a Saturn Return support group! Sunshinep.s. Your Saturn Return's happening in your 7th house; here's more on that from Cafeastrology:"Significant relationships with others are the focus when Saturn transits the seventh house. Saturn motivates us to do "spring cleaning" in the areas of life he touches, and one-to-one relationships will need to be considered and understood during this transit. Initially, as is usually the case with Saturn transits, we might feel frustrated and we might seem withdrawn. This is a time when we need to define, understand, and crystallize our significant relationships with others. If you already have a partner, this is a time when any issues surrounding compromise, flexibility, and the ability to give your heart to your partner will surface. Initial frustration can take the form of feeling criticized and "examined" in this area of life. By the end of the transit, however, you will have learned much about commitment and compromise. Single natives will feel the initial pressures of Saturn transiting the seventh house as well. A feeling of loneliness is possible in either situation (whether you have a significant partnership or not), but instead of an issue of re-committing, the single native will think about commitment in general. If involved in a casual love relationship, when Saturn transits the seventh, a pressure emerges concerning the need for evaluating one's commitments. Often this transit corresponds with an urge (or pressure) to make a commitment or a re-commitment. Healthy partnerships can be the outcome of this partnership, whether they are new ones or strengthened existing partnerships. Saturn always brings with him a fair measure of reality and objectivity, so that whatever relationships the native has or wants will be defined and re-defined. Relationships are seen now as serious. Partners are no longer simply fun or mirrors of our ego. Responsibilities to partners, the need to compromise, and the realities of the needs of others, become clear. We are forced to begin seeing others as individuals, and to improve the manner in which we relate to and with others. Depending on the person's age and life circumstances, "significant partnerships" can mean partnerships with loved ones, business partnerships, and even deep friendships. For example, when Saturn transited my seventh house when I was a young teenager, I began to view my casual friendships as superficial and unsatisfying and eventually developed a deep friendship with a girl that was to last some time. Essentially, quantity (in the relationship department) was replaced with quality, and this process involved time, soul-searching, frustration, and eventual fulfillment."LuLuWell that explains a lot. I've been cutting through a lot of the BS lately and getting down to business at work and at home. It's just frustrating and irritating and a bit lonely too.
April 26th, 1978Louisville, Kentucky1:43am ESTSun - Taurus 5 degrees 3rd houseMoon - Sagittarius 17 degrees 11th houseMercury - Aries 14 degrees 2nd houseVenus - Taurus 28 degrees 4th houseMars - Leo 5 degrees 7th houseJupiter - Cancer 2 degrees 5th houseSaturn - Leo 23 degrees 7th houseUranus - Scorpio 14 degrees 9th houseNeptune- Sagittarius 17 degrees 11th housePluto - Libra 14 degrees 8th houseTrue Node - Libra 5 degrees 8th houseChiron - Taurus 5 degrees 4th houseAsc - Capricorn 29 degrees
One possibility is that it's due to your Saturn Return; I'm close to your age (I live in KY too!), and am going thru the same thing. Saturn's now at 12 degrees in Leo, and approaching your natal Saturn position; this transit is life-changing, and you inevitably end up making big changes in your life & attitude towards life.
You can read more about it here: http://www.newage-directory.com/saturn.html
Hope things get better for you; hang in there! Sunshine
Sunshinep.s. Your Saturn Return's happening in your 7th house; here's more on that from Cafeastrology:
"Significant relationships with others are the focus when Saturn transits the seventh house. Saturn motivates us to do "spring cleaning" in the areas of life he touches, and one-to-one relationships will need to be considered and understood during this transit. Initially, as is usually the case with Saturn transits, we might feel frustrated and we might seem withdrawn. This is a time when we need to define, understand, and crystallize our significant relationships with others. If you already have a partner, this is a time when any issues surrounding compromise, flexibility, and the ability to give your heart to your partner will surface. Initial frustration can take the form of feeling criticized and "examined" in this area of life. By the end of the transit, however, you will have learned much about commitment and compromise. Single natives will feel the initial pressures of Saturn transiting the seventh house as well. A feeling of loneliness is possible in either situation (whether you have a significant partnership or not), but instead of an issue of re-committing, the single native will think about commitment in general. If involved in a casual love relationship, when Saturn transits the seventh, a pressure emerges concerning the need for evaluating one's commitments. Often this transit corresponds with an urge (or pressure) to make a commitment or a re-commitment. Healthy partnerships can be the outcome of this partnership, whether they are new ones or strengthened existing partnerships. Saturn always brings with him a fair measure of reality and objectivity, so that whatever relationships the native has or wants will be defined and re-defined. Relationships are seen now as serious. Partners are no longer simply fun or mirrors of our ego. Responsibilities to partners, the need to compromise, and the realities of the needs of others, become clear. We are forced to begin seeing others as individuals, and to improve the manner in which we relate to and with others. Depending on the person's age and life circumstances, "significant partnerships" can mean partnerships with loved ones, business partnerships, and even deep friendships. For example, when Saturn transited my seventh house when I was a young teenager, I began to view my casual friendships as superficial and unsatisfying and eventually developed a deep friendship with a girl that was to last some time. Essentially, quantity (in the relationship department) was replaced with quality, and this process involved time, soul-searching, frustration, and eventual fulfillment."
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